Testimonials
“I initially started seeing Valentina during a family crisis, and her practical insight and caring approach, combined with tools to process the emotionally charged situation, was immensely helpful during an extremely difficult time. I have continued to benefit from her practice and approach. I have seen other family therapists in the past, but I feel Valentina is able to get to the root of the issue, process the corresponding emotions/behaviors, while also addressing the immediate need. Her suggestions have helped me personally and positively impacted my relationship with my family and spouse."
~ A client/couple in their mid twenties (marriage adjustment and extended family issues on both spouses' sides)
“I was skeptical about seeking therapy for myself and my family for our issues because I have had bad experiences in the past, but after hearing from a very close friend about her experience with Valentina, I made an appointment. My step children took to her immediately as did my husband and I. From the first visit with Valentina, I felt a sense of calm and developed a trust in her immediately. We found ourselves laughing and opening up as a family more than ever before--something I was not sure could happen, especially with our depressed teen-aged son and angry daughter. This experience with Valentina has been one of the best decisions I have made for my family and has had an overwhelming positive effect on each one of us. I would recommend her services to anyone who may be considering this kind of assistance. It has been life changing, and I only wish I would have contacted her sooner. Thank you so much, Valentina, for giving my family hope and providing us with techniques that we will continue to use every day to cope through life’s struggles. You have been a blessing to my family.”
~ A couple in their mid thirties and their family (adjustment to a blended family situation)
“Our daughter recently had anxiety attacks that kept her out of school, and it was suggested that we seek a therapist. We met with Valentina for three sessions. She explained what anxiety was and why our daughter was experiencing the anxiety attacks. Valentina was able to provide us techniques to help calm our daughter down when the anxiety arises. The sessions were extremely helpful, and we would recommend Valentina to any other parents.”
~ A child learning to manage their emotions and her family
“When I first decided I needed a little help with some of the problems I was having in my life, I felt extremely embarrassed and anxious. I didn’t know what to expect and was worried I would be asked “how I feel about that” constantly. But with my very first phone call to Valentina to schedule our first session, I already felt relieved. She had the most soft spoken, calming voice, and did not sound at all like what I was picturing. I was very surprised when it actually came to therapy, it felt more like a conversation I was having with a close friend, rather than spilling all my secrets to a complete stranger. She was so easy to talk to, and gave me time to catch my breath if I was bringing up anything that made me emotional again. There was never a lull in conversation, and I didn’t feel at all like I was the only one going on and on. If the discussion ever started to get slow, she would ask questions that led us in a different direction and always had insight when I was done. Valentina is fantastic, and I would recommend her to anyone I know. The best advice I could give someone going to therapy for the first time is: Don’t get defensive. Some of the best feedback I got from Valentina, I maybe didn’t want to hear, but if I listened with an open mind and looked at it from another perspective, it was exactly what was needed.”
~ An individual client in her twenties (stress and life management)
“Valentina is the one person who has brought me out of a very dark life into one with light and hope. The words I would use to describe Valentina are professional, kind, astute, soothing, honest, and thorough. I experienced abuse in my childhood, and through Valentina’s expertise in trauma treatment, I now look forward to every day with joy. My whole family has noticed a great difference in me. No longer do I have despair and self-doubt. I can find and recognize happiness once again! Thank you, Valentina!”
~ A client in her fifties dealing with the aftermath of childhood sexual, physical, and emotional abuse
“I came to a point in my life where change needed to happen, and I was at a loss as to how I could make that change come about. I decided to try therapy. Therapy to me seemed like a last ditch effort. I didn’t expect any change. But at the end of that effort, at least I could say I tried. When I met Valentina, I noticed that she was very perceptive, empathetic, knowledgeable, and smart. I felt comfortable talking to Valentina, and I was very pleased with the way Valentina taught me to challenge myself to be better and healthier.
I used to feel like I was not quite broken, but just put together wrong. Happiness and self-love were things for everyone except me. After meeting with Valentina for a while, my heart and my thinking began to heal, and I began to see my life as something that I could be in control of. I started bringing my young children with me to see Valentina, and immediately, she was able to connect with my kids and help them find peace and alleviate their anxiety. Valentina is an amazing therapist who I constantly recommend to anyone and everyone who might need a little help getting to a better place in their lives.”
~ A recently separated mom in her thirties and her children
“Valentina, Thank you so much for everything you have done for us. You are truly amazing. We will never forget you. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers always.”
~ Parents in their thirties and their son: marriage concerns and parenting issues
“Valentina is a wonderful therapist. She is soft spoken, yet what she says is very powerful. She helped me through a difficult time when my husband told me he wanted a divorce. I continued to see her through the divorce process. She met my ex-husband a few times, which allowed her to give insight on why things likely happened the way they did; as well as providing me with skills to get past what was and move forward. This was very beneficial when it came time to consider dating. She helped me understand what to look for in a future partner and to be mindful of behaviors that can potentially be problematic in a significant other. I am currently happily re-married. I have referred many friends to Valentina for help with issues in their personal life.”
~ A remarried client/couple in their thirties
“Dear Valentina,
Thank you so much for your support. You are such a wonderful caring and compassionate person. It took me a long time to find someone who understood where I have been and where I am going in my life--someone who could be objective yet compassionate. I am one of those people that have experienced a childhood that I would never wish upon anyone. The effects of this traumatic experience carried forward into my marriage and my business life. You have the ability to create a safe environment and the ability to help me by using your methods of trauma treatment, so I can feel safe and know that no one can hurt me again. I am so much better at this than I was before. I can never thank you enough for what you have given me. You will always be so special to me. May God bless you always.”
~ A client in her sixties with marriage concerns and childhood abuse issues